I can’t believe I forgot the second most hated thing on my list of hated things yesterday!
Disappearing. I have (… er… had?) this amazingly great friend for the past four and a half years. Here’s the history of me and him in a nutshell: We started out dating, dated for 11 months, he dumped me but said he wanted to stay friends, that didn’t happen… we didn’t talk for three months, then I needed him (not “needed” needed him, but for reals needed him for something I had to do and was super scared to do. He was one of the only people who could help me with it… I had to clarify), so I broke the ice, he helped me, he asked me out for my birthday a week later, he apologized for being a d-bag, then bada-bing-bada-boom we were friends!, my bff and confidant Aubrey was gone for a year and a half serving the Lord and this friend stepped up and helped me through the toughest decision I ever made and the hardest thing I ever did, he was an incredible support to me and someone I could always always count on, I start dating Beau and we stay friends because we’re friends, he starts dating a girl and tells me about every step in the progression of their relationship and we stay friends, he gets engaged to said girl and we stay friends, communication slows but I guess that’s expected (it’s not like we talked all the time), he tells me the gf gets mad when he talks to anyone female, he asks me for my address (twice) for my invite to the wedding because we are friends, I tell him a little about the awesome wedding present I was making for them, I go out of the country for about a month and while I’m gone he gets married, I come back to no wedding invite so I asked him why and he assured me he sent one and asks why I thought he wouldn’t invite me (?), I text him to ask him if I can bring their wedding present by and he says yes but we didn’t arrange a time, I notice we are no longer friends on Facebook so I text him to ask him why, no response, a few weeks later I text to ask if I could bring his wedding gift by that Saturday (twice), no response. I guess we’re not friends anymore? 😦
Oh, and Melissa.